There are a lot of people on the Internet who would scam you. But this doesn't mean that there aren't any good guys out there. You just have to be vigilant when it comes to meeting men on the net. The intention of scammers is to deceive you so they can get your money. So, don't fall prey to their schemes. Here are some ways on how to spot a real person from a bogus one.
Observe the profile closely. Take note if there are inconsistencies. When you chat with people online, you can identify it quickly if they are the real deal. Compare what they are saying if it matches what is displayed on their profile.
If you're emailing each other, take note of his messages. Observe how the sentences are constructed. If they show discrepancies, then one thing is for sure. A lot of people could be using the profile name or account. This is one of the internet dating fraud out there, so be watchful.
Don't be fooled by sad tales. It usually takes some time before you really open up to someone you've just met. Be it online or offline. So, it should send a red flag if someone immediately confides in you about personal stuff. This is one of the methods scammers use to get you to sympathize.
Ask them basic personal information like what their job is. If the person you met is fake, he will most likely make up a story. An unrealistic story can be easily identified because it cannot be supported with solid details. If you try to ask him what his job entails, he will most likely give you vague answers. But most often, he will change the topic.
Scammers will go after your money. They would do this by first gaining your trust. Once they have accomplished that, they will then use your trusting nature to their advantage. He would tell you that he wants to see you, but has no travel money. Since you already like and trust him, you would go along with his request. Sadly, he won't come and see you. If you ask him what happened, he would make up some sort of excuse. He may say that he got robbed, or had to use the money because of some emergency. After that, he would ask for some money again. Don't ever fall for this kind of trick.
Every month there are new reports of more online dating scams out there. It should raise a red flag once the subject of money comes into picture during the conversation with a new guy. Remember, an honest person would never ask you for money just so he can see you.
